Thou
wilt shew me the path of lie:
in thy presence is fulness of joy;
at thy right hand there are
pleasures for evermore.
Psalms 16:11
in thy presence is fulness of joy;
at thy right hand there are
pleasures for evermore.
Psalms 16:11
It
happens around this time of year to many folks, including
Christians...the blahs. By the time people manage to survive until
the first week of January, all of the anticipation, excitement, gifts
have been given and received. There have been choir presentations,
decorations, shopping, family visits, school parties, over-eating and
over spending, that all take a toll emotionally and maybe even
physically on almost anyone. We sang with great fervor and joy
through the month of December:
“Joy
to the world, the Lord is come,
Let earth receive her King.
Let every heart, prepare Him room
and Heaven and nature sing.”
Let earth receive her King.
Let every heart, prepare Him room
and Heaven and nature sing.”
I
wonder, though, by the time we get past all the events and are left
with let down emotions, if another song could be changed that would
better describe our feelings. It's a child's song we used to sing
also with joy:
I've
got the blahs, blahs, blahs, blahs
Down in my heart,
Down in my heart,
Down in my heart.
I've got the blahs, blahs, blahs, blahs
Down in my heart,
Down in my heart to stay.
Down in my heart,
Down in my heart,
Down in my heart.
I've got the blahs, blahs, blahs, blahs
Down in my heart,
Down in my heart to stay.
We've
all been there. We don't like the feeling and we certainly didn't
plan for it, but it can happen. Christmas starts in stores, on-line
ads and catalogs as early as October and sometimes September. It is
everywhere we go...can't get away from it. We find ourselves getting
with the program. I remember as a little girl that the Christmas
tree went up only a week before Christmas. Some people put their
tree up on Christmas eve. Sounds odd, doesn't it and yet, I think
there was more of a realistic view of the season back then. We
weren't left in a huge emotional mess.
Keep
in mind that these emotional let downs don't just happen with adults
as they can happen with children as well. Children generally feel a
letdown when they open their last gift and may even say or want to
say, “Is this all?” All of us can remember as children the build
up to a big day like Christmas or even birthdays. Parents along with
the rest of their emotions feel a sense of guilt if they don't
produce for their children those things other children are receiving.
Forget Thanksgiving. In America there is a two month orgy our
country has come to be called
“Christmas” and even now, that word is hardly used in commercial
entities. Just that fact can depress me as much as anything.
So
what do we do? I'm speaking to all of us, common ordinary people who
are emotionally healthy, at least ten months out of the year. We
first have to recognize the cause of these feelings of depression,
over-tired, listless, inactive, head achy, and perhaps not sleeping
well. Some of the best advice I ever heard on this subject was to
plan something eventful in the first part of January...it might be a
trip, attending a special event, saving gift certificates until
January or something you could think of that would be appropriate for
you or yours that could be fun to look forward to. Most important is
for us to maintain our spiritual priorities. It's easy over holiday
times to let our Bible reading go. We might even be careless in
church attendance and activities. Our spiritual strength isn't just
going to happen. It should stem from an important relationship with
the Lord that is vital to our well-being every day of the year.
The
answer is a spiritual answer that applies to any time of the year.
These blahs can attack us after coming home from a dreamed-of
vacation or after a family wedding. I can remember as a girl being
depressed for at least a couple of weeks after I had to return home
from church camp. I had counted days until I could go to Lake Benton
Baptist Camp. Suddenly it seemed, that day was there and each day
there just seemed to fly.
As
simplistic as it sounds, the Lord we sing of in “Joy to the world”
is still the answer. That carol's first line is deep with meaning:
“Joy to the world...THE LORD IS COME.” Jesus came then,
but He comes everyday of the year into our lives. He wants the
preeminence above all events, holidays, vacations, etc. If we are to
get excited, He wants it to be over Him and not the things this world
has managed to come up with. He understands happiness, but if our
joy and happiness comes as a result of our relationship with Him, all
other things will fall into place. Then when big events occur, we
can get back to normalcy quickly because He is our normal.
Wouldn't
it be wonderful if into the month of January, we could truly sing,
even if quietly to ourselves:
“I've
got the joy, joy, joy, joy
Down in my heart,
Down in my heart,
Down in my heart.
I've got the joy, joy, joy, joy
Down in my heart.
Down in my heart TO STAY.”
Down in my heart,
Down in my heart,
Down in my heart.
I've got the joy, joy, joy, joy
Down in my heart.
Down in my heart TO STAY.”
There's
only one reason we can sing that familiar song from childhood primary
Sunday school. That reason is:
“Joy
to the world, the Lord is come
Let earth receive her King.
Let EVERY heart,
Prepare Him room.
And heaven and nature sing,
And heaven and nature sing,
And heaven...and heaven
And nature sing.”
Let earth receive her King.
Let EVERY heart,
Prepare Him room.
And heaven and nature sing,
And heaven and nature sing,
And heaven...and heaven
And nature sing.”
That
should not be just a song for Christmas, but for every single day
because He is our joy. We must prepare Him room to work and move in
our lives every day.
Thank
You Jesus for being the only source of our joy. Forgive us, at
times, for not making room for You in our lives when we get busy or
preoccupied with so many things. Forgive our lack of consideration
for You and all You've done for us. In Your precious name...Amen