Monday, April 21, 2014

Love My Rut...I Think!




And let us consider one another

to provoke unto love and to

good works.

Hebrews 10:24



When around the age of eight, I remember how much I loved Sunday afternoon car rides to see farmer relatives. My mother and grandmother sat in the front seat of the car while my sister Kay and I sat in the back seat, usually playing with our dolls that we had taken with us. The highway took us only so far to whichever farm we were headed to, but then we had to turn off onto dirt roads. That wasn't so bad unless there had been a big rain. After those rains, most farmers were happy to just stay home until there had been some drying-out time. However, we never knew when it had rained in some areas. If the dirt road looked smooth, it seemed it would be safe...how wrong could we be. Sometimes there were ruts in the road where a farmer had braved the terrible road conditions.



As we had made the trip, my mother would venture forth anyway on the road. If there were tire ruts, she would try to stay to the right or left of them. I remember asking her one time why she didn't drive in the two ditches. She explained that those ditches are actually “ruts” and you never want to get stuck in ruts or you would be forever trying to get out of them. I understood that better after we drove into muddy ruts one day. We sat there until some farmer spotted us and came to pull us out with his tractor. Kay and sat and cried because we thought we would never see our home again. We did get out of the ruts though but with a great deal of effort.



I don't know how often I have said to someone, “I love my comfortable rut.” There is a certain routine to most of our lives where we have found a kind of comfort and security that may not be bad in themselves unless we are happy to stay there, never budging or making any effort to do anything different. For the most part, when we speak of the ruts we find ourselves in, they aren't positive.



Let me say that having a routine in one's life and being in a rut are not necessarily the same things. Having a routine in life is often very beneficial in getting things accomplished. There are certain things I do on certain days of the week. I wash clothes on Monday, iron on Tuesday, type the church bulletin by Wednesday with church that night, grocery shop on Thursday, leave Friday as a free day, go to the church on Saturday to run the bulletin and get things done for the Sunday school department for the next day and then Sunday speaks for itself. That to some folks would sound like a rut and it would be unless I'm willing to shift some things around for the convenience of others or when there are interruptions of some sort.



There are some negative ruts we can get ourselves into without even noticing it. I'll mention a few:



Rut of Offense:

We have known people who stay mad at someone, anyone all the time. If they don't have someone to talk and gripe about all the time, they aren't happy. When we get around them, we automatically know who/what the conversation will be about. Perhaps you and I have found ourselves in this rut at times but through God's help, we've been pulled out of this destructive rut.



Rut of verbal garbage:

Believe it or not, this rut is something we Christians can get pulled into. This rut doesn't have to be out and out cursing or even shady jokes and innuendo. Christians are usually careful about those things. I've been in settings with conversations going on where people are talking about others, bringing up someone else's past junk, taking others reputations apart piece by piece. We forget in such settings that God is very present and hears every word. I've been in settings where I felt like taking a bath after I got home as if I could wash off the conversation I just took part in. Psalms suggests putting a guard over our lips.



Rut of church activity:

Please don't misunderstand me on this one. Serving the Lord however He leads is important for us to be a part of. Our service though can be so routine that we don't even give the Lord a thought as we are fulfilling certain activities. Singing in the choir can end up just providing us with the best seat in the church during a service. I play the piano for our services. I must admit that there are times I play and that's it. I can play with rarely thinking about what I'm playing and why. Some Sunday school teachers love that status and have taught for years but it's become the same routine job being done week after week. In this area, we need a real tug from the Holy Spirit to get us back on track...the track of sincere service for the Lord.



Rut of comfort:

This can be a bad one. For folks who have retired like I have, there's a danger in sitting and doing nothing, thinking we've earned that time. There is no where in Scripture where we are given permission to give up on life and service for God. That place of comfort can make us ill from being self-absorbed. We can become lazy, not available to the needs of others and certainly not available to God's calling on our lives. There's nothing wrong with a certain amount of comfort but not to the point of shutting out all opportunities for having meaning in the lives of others as well as for the cause of Christ.



Rut of sin:

This rut is a very personal one. I understand that sin is sin and God hates it in us. I doubt that any of us have murdered anyone or robbed any banks. We put things like that at the top of the Sin List. The Lord isn't any happier with our bad attitudes, lack of spiritual discipline, overeating, and anger than some of those biggy sins...and on and on it could go.



Rut of self:

All of the other ruts mentioned could probably fall in this category. When in the rut of self, our attitude is “I'm going to live life like I want to live it and it's not of anyone's business.” That statement might shut the mouths of our critics but the self absorbed person will be happily settled into their own personal rut with no thought for others or even for God Himself. This is one of the hardest ruts to get out of because many times, we don't realize we're in this one and it might take some convincing. When we recognize it, we then have to want to do something about the problem. Our God is the God of the impossible and can even give us victory over this rut, but we must work together with Him to budge from this one.



No matter the rut we might find ourselves in, the Holy Spirit stands ready to convict us. We need to be listening to His prompting all the time. He also will empower us to get out of whatever rut has it's hold on us. Let's remember that the same Holy Spirit that raised Jesus from the dead, is the same Spirit that resides in all of us who claim Jesus as Savior. Through Him, we are more than conquerors and we can walk in spiritual victory above and around the ruts of life.





Dear Father, I'm so grateful that You know me and You can help me move out of my selfish ways. Thank You for loving me and forgiving me despite my sinful ways. I love You...Amen

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