TWICE
ADOPTED
For as many as are led by the
Spirit of God, they are the sons of God.
For ye have not received the spirit
of bondage again to fear; but
ye have received the Spirit of
adoption, whereby we cry, Abba, Father.
Romans 8:14,15
November
is National Adoption Month and it's interesting that our Jennie's
birthday falls in this month because by law she is adopted but by the
love of her mom and dad, it was only a procedure that made her ours
officially. We had her in our care for two months when we had to
make a visit to an adoption court in a nearby city. When arriving,
we found the court room to be quite different from most. It was a
cheerful and non-threatening court room. The judge looked very much
like a sweet grandfather in his black robe. To our right was a huge
wall of glass. Through that glass wall we saw a huge children's
room. There were cribs, play pens, changing tables, toy boxes, small
tables and chairs along with an array of rocking chairs. Children of
all ages could be seen with their soon to be forever parents.
Our
adoption would not be made final that day but we had to be there in
order to get legal custody of Jennie for our lawyer to get all of our
legal necessities going. We joined those folks until our name was
called. We went through the glass doors and stood before the judge's
bench. He was very kind, asked the circumstances of Jennie coming
into our lives and paying close attention to her where she was
cuddled up, face in my neck, sound asleep.
He
admonished us regarding Jennie's rights as an adopted child. She was
to have every kind of care any child would be given. We were to see
to her education and rearing to be a good citizen. He also added
that she had the same rights to an inheritance as any other child
would have in a family. We agreed to all she would need from us.
The
judge then turned his attention to Jennie who was still sleeping in
her pretty new yellow dress a friend had purchased for that special
day. The judge suddenly said, “Jennie, do you want to go home and
live with these folks who have promised to be your parents.” It
was funny because just at that moment, she let out one of those baby
sighs that he could clearly hear. He smiled and said, “That's good
enough for me, Jennie” and he signed the custody papers on the
spot.
From
that day, Jennie has been our girl. I don't think we ever made a big
deal about her being adopted. It was just a free subject with no
mystery. The same was true when our other two came along. Adoption
was no big deal except for us, her parents. She was one of the
prettiest little girls ever. A modeling agency wanted her under
contract but we said no because that just wasn't the direction we
wanted for her. She's always had a tender heart and yes, she's had
her challenges off and on but most kids do, but she has a heart as
big as she is and would do anything for anyone.
Adoption
isn't for sissy's as anyone who has been through the process can
know. Someone asked me what was the hardest pregnancy I went
through. I quickly said that it was with our first. That was
puzzling to the questioner but we who have walked the road know what
all is involved. We wouldn't turn back, but the labor is a totally
different experience.
It
dawned on me a few days ago that Jennie is the only one in our
immediate family who will know what it is to be adopted twice. The
above verses should give a hint as to what I mean by that. All three
of our children said “Dad” before they said, “Mom.” I
understand for a very little one that Dad is easier to say but that's
the way it was. When Jennie first said “Dad”, the say will come
when she will also say, “Abba” referring to her Heavenly “Papa.”
In both instances, she has that privilege because of being
adopted...twice.
We
live in a world where there are too many to count who don't know
Jesus as Savior, who at this point will not know anything about their
spiritual adoption until they accept Jesus' offer of that priceless
gift of salvation. When they do, their adoption process is well on
the way to be completed when they one day meet in person, their
Heavenly Father...their Abba Pappa. What a wonderful day that will
be for us all who are already His children...by Adoption because of
Jesus' gift of salvation.
What
do your spiritual adoption papers look like? Are they signed, sealed
and delivered with the stamp of the Holy Spirit on them? Without the
Spirits stamp on our lives, our adoption is far from valid.
Thank
You Father for Jesus who through Him provided this gift of salvation
I enjoy and couldn't do without. I'm grateful You have adopted me
and that we have a bond no one of this world can know other than
those who like me have become your children. In Jesus precious
name....Amen
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