ENCOURAGE YOURSELF

Therefore encourage one another and
build up one another, just as you
also are doing.
I Thessalonians 5:11 NASB

Mrs. Lilly was one of my favorite teachers of all time. She taught in our local junior high school. She taught a combination of penmanship and orthography. I could never get the right arm muscle moving to be the cursive writer she hoped, but I did come to love orthography. This is a subject to this day I use when I come across a word that either isn't clear to me or could be clearer. We had to learn prefixes and break down the other parts of words to get a clear meaning of them. She would have us pull the word apart, Take the word “encourage” for instance. Mrs. Lilly would say that .”en” means “to cause to “ and “courage” speaks of “strength in the face of pain, grief or challenge.” From that we see then, encouragement is to “cause a person to be strong in his circumstances.” It's one thing to know the meaning of the word, another thing to do it.

In whatever form discouragement comes, it affects people in all walks of life. Leaders of every ilk as well as common ordinary people need to hear encouraging words. All of us
need encouragement at one time or another, but I think there are some who need it a little more. I think of single parent families, caregivers taking care of loved ones, unemployed persons, first time empty-nesters and the list could go on and on. All of us know of such folks and others.

I'm thinking right now of our pastors. Just today I read of two young pastors, each on opposite sides of our country who in recent days have committed suicide. Young families are left with no husband and father. Both suffered from great bouts with depression. Our pastors carry heavy and often unreasonable loads. They may smile and appear upbeat while carrying a hurting heart. I wonder what difference it would make for them to receive a kind note or e-mail expressing appreciation for all they do for so many.

Encouragement isn't a new concept. We find it scattered through God's Word and from some examples we can read such admonitions given to some who really needed it. I can't help but think of Moses to Joshua: Moses wasn't going to be allowed to enter the promised land. Joshua was appointed by God to take over what Moses had been doing. I can't imagine the butterflies in the stomach of Joshua, perhaps even a kind of panic. But God told Moses in Deuteronomy to speak words of encouragement to Joshua, the newly appointed leader. Note God's instructions to Moses in verse 3:28:

But charge Joshua, and encourage him, and strengthen him:
for he shall go over before this people, and he shall
cause them to inherit the land which thou shalt see.

In Joshua chapter 1:7-9, the Lord Himself spoke to Joshua with great power. Just verse 9 said it all:

Have not I commanded thee? Be strong and

of a good courage: be not afraid, neither be thou

dismayed: for the Lord thy God is with thee

whithersoever thou goest.

We can understand the importance of those words of encouragement as Joshua was to undertake an almost impossible challenge.

What about you and me, in every day life who may be going through any number of things life throws our way. We may not have someone ready to call us with an encouraging word. We may not receive a kind note in the mail from someone thinking about and praying for us. There is an element I think we fail often to think of when we are discouraged with no encouragement in sight. In my reading, a verse stood out as if written in neon lights. The verse has to do with David who went through all types of tests and trials. It was a verse I know the Lord presented to me recently for purpose. The verse is I Samuel 30:6 and it says:

And David was greatly distressed; for the people
spake of stoning him, because the soul of all
the people was grieved, every man for his
sons and for his daughters: BUT
DAVID ENCOURAGED HIMSELF
IN THE LORD.

There was no one around or even in sight who could encourage David in the way he needed. A little further down in the passage, it says that “David inquired of the Lord.” I mention these things about David because I'm afraid these are about the last things we think to do when in despair. We often expect everyone to encourage us when God waits for us to call on Him for comfort and support. He may send someone with “skin on” to act for Him, but He may not. It could be He wants to hear from us with no one else around. 

My hope for you and me is that we learn to encourage ourselves in the Lord. That can empower us more than we can imagine. Our Father is waiting with armloads of encouragement to pour into your life and mine. May we seek Him first. No one can lift our spirits like our Heavenly Father can.

Dear Holy Spirit, help me to remember to invite You to my next pity party? You are the best encouragement there is and I often rely on frail human beings to do for me what really only You can do. Thank You for my pastor and others in ministry who need Your guidance and strengtheneing every day...keep them strong in You In Jesus precious name....Amen